Tuesday, October 7, 2025

A Soft Place to Be — and Why Radical Clarity Is the Kindest Gift

 



There’s a saying I’ve always loved: “a soft place to fall.”


To me, it meant a place where you could just be — safe, accepted, and loved no matter what.


For much of my life, I longed for that kind of safety. I looked for it in relationships, in family, in friendships. And over time, I realized something both hard and freeing: I wasn’t meant to keep falling — I was meant to create a soft place to be.

The “safe places” others offered often came with strings attached — quiet expectations that I give something in return. It was never truly unconditional.

This past month, I was reminded again how rare clarity and honesty really are. Someone came into my life who said they were sent to help, and I believed that.

 But by the end, I was left feeling more alone than before — especially when my birthday came and went in silence.

In the middle of all that, I found myself helping a woman in a wheelchair. Looking back, I see that part of me wanted to prove — to myself and others — that I am good at solving things, no matter what was being projected onto me.

Later, I went to a friend simply because I needed a hug — a caring, human moment of connection. She said, “Maybe they didn’t want to hurt you, so they said yes and didn’t follow through.”

And I understood that. But I also knew a deeper truth:


When we act out of fear of hurting someone, we often create more pain.

The universe doesn’t hear “don’t.”


It only hears what follows.


So when someone says, “I don’t want to hurt her,” the focus — and the vibration — is still on hurt.

It takes so much more energy to avoid the truth than to simply speak it with love.  

That’s why radical clarity is, in truth, the kindest choice we can make.

This is why I love the animals.


With them, there’s no pretending, no confusion, no second-guessing. They either like you or they don’t. They sense energy instantly, and if something shifts, they let you know.

 It’s honest.

 It’s clean.

 It’s kind.

And I realized — that’s the kind of clarity I want in all my relationships, human and otherwise.

So this is my new standard of service and of life:


I will be a soft place to be — not a place for vague promises or half-truths.
I am here for real connection — grounded in honesty, courage, and love.

Because we don’t fall into alignment.


We create it.
💫


💡 Reflection for You:
Where in your life are you accepting “kind vagueness” instead of the truth that could set you free?
What would shift if you allowed radical clarity to guide your next conversation — or your next act of creation?


#ASoftPlaceToBe #RadicalClarity #EnergeticIntegrity #TheBetterItGets

 

Example of Aligned Service and True Reciprocity

 



I recently partnered with a woman on a critical mission to help a feral cat who was shot by an arrow and had deep trust issues with humans.

The first day she tried to help, the energy was convoluted, and she was there for hours with no result.

The next day, we performed deep energy work together. This work was profound: I spoke to the cat telepathically, fully honoring his sovereignty—telling him we would help him heal but would not impose our will. We gave him permission to live or pass, ensuring he knew the choice was completely his.

She went to the site that same day. She arrived, set up the drop trap, and he walked right up and let her drop it. It was that easy. The energetic shift was immediate and undeniable.


The Integrity of the Flow: My New Standard

1️ Immediate Acknowledgment
The woman was a clear vessel. She recognized the instant, tangible benefit of my work and immediately gave my business a public shout-out, ensuring the flow of good energy continued.

2️ Aligned Attraction
That acknowledgement instantly brought me new clients who were genuinely ready and willing to connect with the energy of their pets on a deeper level. The resulting work was effective, powerful, and honored the energetic contract.

3️ Mutual Empowerment
Because the flow was clear, her own resources multiplied. She effortlessly secured free food and successfully raised money for her vet fees, demonstrating that True Reciprocity increases resources for all involved.


Example #2 – My Kitty’s Healing

One of my beloved cats—who feels like a reincarnation of one of my earlier kitties—once got something stuck in his system (which cost me $800 to discover). It was going to be extremely expensive to surgically remove, and at the time I simply didn’t have the funds.

I spoke to him energetically:

“If we don’t find a way to help you heal naturally, I may have to surrender you to a rescue. They will likely keep you indoors and I may lose all connection with you. It’s your choice whether you want to heal here with me or go another route.”

Every time I put a natural remedy on my finger to help him pass the obstruction, he would lick it willingly. We worked together. He healed naturally. He’s still here now—healthy, vibrant, and free.

This is the energy I’m now claiming:
Honest communication.
Sovereignty and choice.
Mutual cooperation.
Miraculous outcomes.

 



My Affirmation

I am affirming that every interaction I have—in my business, my community, and my life—will reflect this truth of clear, reciprocal flow, where integrity is the currency, and mutual empowerment is the only result.


💡 Reflection for You:
What painful past experience can you now deliberately rewrite to focus only on the desired outcome, setting the energetic magnet for your future?

#ConsciousCreation #DesigningMyReality #EnergeticIntegrity #TheBetterItGets

From Crap Magnet to Soul Mechanic



I used to be a “Crap Magnet.” 🤷‍♀️

But here’s the truth… it wasn’t all my fault.

It was a perfect storm: first, the innocent absorption of my mother’s fears and projections into my energetic field — and then, the lifelong habit of replaying that energy internally.

The breakthrough came when I finally understood:

I wasn’t just battling thoughts.

I was carrying frequencies.

When I began to see myself as an Energetic Being, everything changed. The “crap” wasn’t a punishment — it was a reflection of unhealed energy I was ready to release.

That realization set me free. 🌬️

And as I cleared myself of other people’s energies, expectations, and old programs that were never mine to begin with — something magical happened.

I actually became lucky. 🍀

Synchronicities increased. Things started flowing with ease. The right people, animals, and opportunities began showing up at exactly the right time.

Because luck isn’t random. It’s alignment.

Now, every painful memory from my “crap magnet” years has become pure contrast — fuel for the new, aligned reality I’m consciously creating.

If you’re tired of attracting what you don’t want, stop fighting your thoughts. Start clearing your energy.

You have the power to stop the lineage of fear… and embody the wholeness your soul has been calling you toward. Let’s shift this together.

#CrapMagnetNoMore #EnergeticSovereignty #ClearVessel #SoulMechanic #ThePerfectRose #EnergeticLuck


Sunday, October 5, 2025

Transforming Sadness into Service

 


Transforming Sadness into Service

There are moments on this journey when the kindness you’ve shown isn’t returned, or people choose to twist your motives instead of seeing your heart. For a while, that pain made me want to withdraw.

But one day, Spirit gave me the ultimate instruction: “When you feel empty, give. When you feel unseen, serve.”

This wasn't about martyrdom; it was about alignment.

My spiritual teacher gave me a concrete way to practice this: "Go and do something for someone else who is in a harder place than you. It will pull you out of yourself.”

This is the power of true service. When you feel that emotional pain—that gap between the love your soul knows and the rejection you see—you don't wait for your feelings to change. You force the shift.

That day, my sadness didn't disappear, but it transformed. It became light moving outward. It became medicine.

I am rewriting the story of service in my life. No longer is it about giving until I’m drained. It’s about giving from overflow.

From now on, every act of service I give will:

  1. Flow from genuine love.
  2. Be received by those who can truly honor it.
  3. Return to me multiplied as peace and aligned opportunities.

Don't wait for recognition to show up. Show up for recognition.


💡 Reflection for You: Who is in a harder place than you right now? What small act of service can you give today to instantly pull your light back online?

#ServiceAsHealing #HeartEnergy #ConsciousCreation #DesigningMyReality #TheBetterItGets