When Leading by Example Feels Invisible

 

For years, I have lived by the belief that when we do what is best for ourselves with good intentions, it naturally benefits those around us. But what happens when those efforts seem unseen, unappreciated, or even disrupted?

Recently, during a heavy snowfall, I cleared a path not just for myself but for my neighbor as well—something I have quietly done for years. The next day, I was shocked to find that they had shoveled their snow right into the space I had cleared, undoing my work. I wasn’t just frustrated about the physical effort being erased—it was the deeper realization that despite leading by example, my actions weren’t truly being seen.

This moment brought up something I’ve been reflecting on deeply: Are we really meant to stay silent and hope people notice? Or is it time to start speaking up and sharing our intentions?

As spiritual individuals, many of us have been conditioned to navigate things quietly, believing that people will eventually “catch on” through our consistent actions. But I am beginning to see that sometimes, silence does not serve us—or them. If people don’t understand what we are trying to show them, how can they change?

So, I chose to speak up. I expressed my frustration, my exhaustion, and my truth. And while it was a vulnerable moment, something shifted. The next time it snowed, my neighbor came out, and we worked together. For the first time, they saw what was possible when we collaborate instead of operating in isolation. They even acknowledged the power of intention and how small shifts can create meaningful change.

The lesson I am taking from this—and perhaps it will resonate with you—is that leading by example is valuable, but sometimes we need to voice what we are doing and why. Not in a way that demands validation, but in a way that invites awareness and transformation.

Maybe the universe is showing me (and all of us) that it’s time to speak our truth, to express our vision, and to give people the opportunity to understand the deeper purpose behind our actions.

What do you think? Have you ever felt unseen when trying to create positive change? How do you navigate the balance between leading quietly and speaking up?

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 ✨ I Asked My Brother's Spirit for Help, and the Universe Responded

✨ When Prayers Are Answered Swiftly

At the beginning of the pandemic, when the world was locked down and I was grieving the loss of my brother, Robbie, I found myself dancing alone in my dining room to a Zumba class. The pain of his passing was fresh, yet as I moved, I felt his spirit with me—dancing beside me, reminding me of his presence.

In a moment of vulnerability, I reached out to him: “Robbie, I need your help! Please send me a client who can pay so I can cover my bills.”

Minutes later, when the class ended, a message popped up. It was a request for me to work with someone—a woman with significant financial means. Her situation was complex, tied to years of dealings with another psychic. This psychic, who had advised her on investments, had come to expect extravagant financial support as a form of repayment. The dynamic was toxic, full of fear and manipulation, and I quickly realized this was no ordinary client relationship.

💔 The Call to Action

In the midst of my own grief, I saw parallels between her situation and what I had witnessed in my brother’s life. She was trapped in a web of fear and control, unable to stand up for herself. I felt compelled to help, though I knew it would not be easy.

The woman’s son, deeply entangled in the situation, was estranged from her—alienated by the psychic’s influence. I felt the need to bridge that gap, to reconnect them, but when I reached out to him, it only stirred more conflict. Instead of gratitude, I was met with accusations. He called me a charlatan, claiming I was exploiting his mother.

💡 The Ordeal

Despite the resistance, I held firm to my integrity and intuition. I prayed for guidance and kept moving forward, reconnecting the family in the ways I could. But the outcome wasn’t what I had hoped. The mother remained terrified of the psychic, and the son was blinded by mistrust. Though I was able to ensure I was paid for the energy and time I had invested, the experience left me unsettled.

The lesson was clear: even when your intentions are pure, not everyone will see your light. Sometimes, your work plants seeds that will only bloom long after you’ve left the picture.

🌱 The Transformation

Years later, when I was questioning my path and the impact of my work, the son came back into my life—this time with an apology. He admitted that the situation had unfolded exactly as I had predicted. He had lost his inheritance, just as I had warned. In his own way, he acknowledged my integrity, though his demeanor hadn’t softened much.

This moment, while not the resolution I might have wished for, brought clarity. It confirmed what I had always known deep down: I am guided by my integrity, even when others misunderstand my intentions. My work isn’t about proving myself to others—it’s about staying true to my purpose.

✨ Claiming My Power

Looking back, I see how my brother, the angels, and the divine orchestrated these experiences to teach me important lessons about boundaries, self-respect, and the true nature of my gifts.

For years, I’ve offered support and angelic assistance freely, out of love and a desire to uplift others. But I’ve realized that some people have taken this generosity for granted or misunderstood it as a crutch. It’s time for a shift.

I am no longer willing to accept relationships where kindness and mutual respect aren’t present. I am no longer here to carry others who refuse to carry themselves.

This is a new chapter—one where I honor the work I’ve done, the lives I’ve touched, and the light I’ve brought into the world.

🌟 The Invitation

Are you ready to embark on your own journey of transformation? Are you ready to heal, grow, and stand fully in your power?

✨ Comment “YES” and step into the magic of what’s possible when you align with your higher self.

 Let’s take this journey together.

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Tune into my show called The Soul Mechanic: on The Bold Brave TV Network on Wednesday evenings at 8:00 pm live. You can also find it on various streaming platforms. I am hoping this will uncover even more answers and reconnect with the wisdom and guidance you may have been seeking.

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Thank you for being part of my journey.

With love and light,

Rose and Friends (Furry and Unseen)  😸💖😇

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