🌟 Why We May Have Chosen Our Parents — From a Soul Perspective 🌟

 

🌟 Why We May Have Chosen Our Parents — From a Soul Perspective 🌟

Sometimes, when we choose aggressive, violent, or cruel parents, it's because our soul has offered itself in service to theirs—staying loving enough to open a chink in their hearts. In doing so, we may become wise, compassionate healers.

Here are some possible soul-level reasons we may have chosen our parents. While simplified, these ideas can offer insight and a starting point for deeper reflection:

• If your parents were authoritarian, your soul's challenge may be to face your fears.

• If they were controlling, to learn how to free yourself.

• If they were pushy, to fulfill your potential.

• If they were absent, to grow into independence.

• If they were uncaring, to learn to care for and nurture yourself.

• If they were critical, to develop self-approval and recognize projection.

• If they were overly intellectual, to connect with and honor your emotions.

• If they were overly emotional, to cultivate discipline.

• If they were out of control, to become grounded and realistic.

• If they were weak or unsupportive, to develop inner strength and self-reliance.

• If they were cruel, to keep your heart open in the face of adversity.

• If they blamed you unfairly, to stop carrying guilt that isn’t yours and to reclaim your voice and truth.

💫 This path isn’t easy—but it may be sacred. If this speaks to you, know you're not alone. Your healing journey is valid, powerful, and seen. 💫

A special thank you to Diana Cooper for sharing a good portion of these topics. 

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