Cheering vs Helping Hands / Villain Moments

 

Cheering vs Helping Hands / Villain Moments

Recently I shared a moment where I set a boundary and invited someone to take aligned action.

But that moment sparked another realization — one that’s been echoing through my life lately.

Recently, another “character” showed up saying they were here to help me.
And in their own way… they did.

But here’s the twist: they didn’t see how I was helping them too, and honestly, their presence kind of disrupted my life while I tried to support both of us.

Here’s the truth about me:
I’m really good at creating solutions where everyone can win.
I see possibilities, pathways, and ways to make things work — like a human Swiss Army knife of solutions. 🛠️

But what I’ve noticed is this: in situations like these, I’m often the one doing most of the work.
Building the solution. Holding the space. Making it all possible.

This brought me to a new clarity:

If I ever welcome someone to stay here again, it needs to actually support me too.
Maybe that means a reduced rate and a clear role assisting with my animal work so I can take breaks and focus on my own life and business.

Because over the years, I’ve noticed a pattern:

• Many people have offered support — but it’s been vague or misaligned with what I really needed.
• Many offered encouragement from afar — like spectators at the edge of a marathon yelling, “Go! Keep going!” — but very few actually handed me water or carried the load.

And that’s the lesson: there’s a big difference between clapping and carrying.
Clapping is lovely, don’t get me wrong — but when you’re running a marathon of giving, sometimes you need real hands-on help, not just applause.

And here comes the funny (and humbling) part…

Even after helping, pouring in solutions, and creating bridges, I often end up cast as the villain.

I’d just helped a woman in a wheelchair — on my actual birthday, a day I’d hoped to keep for myself.
And yet, another person chose to see me as the bad guy — only noticing what they contributed, never what I brought to make it all work.

I was sitting alone, questioning myself, my gifts, my purpose…
And then someone shared a Gene Keys profile in a group.
I clicked. I read. I laughed out loud.

“Your Life’s Work involves knocking down walls.”
“The fates will always come knocking on your door.”
“You are here to stay open and vulnerable rather than becoming tough and closed.”

It was the Universe saying: Yes, Rose. This is exactly your path. You’re not broken. You’re living the work you came to do.

💡 Reflection for you:

Where in your life are you accepting “clapping” when what you really need is “helping hands”?
Have you ever been misunderstood or “cast as the villain” for holding boundaries?
How did you reframe it — and maybe even get a chuckle out of it afterward? 😏

Comment here and tell me. I’m genuinely curious how this shows up for you too. 🌹

With love (and the reminder you deserve real support),

Rose

P.S. Sometimes being the “villain” is really just my superpower in disguise — knocking down walls, creating solutions, and leaving people wondering if I’ve secretly been a superhero this whole time. 🦸‍♀️😂

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Courage Isn't Always Applauded (But That's Okay)

 Courage Isn't Always Applauded (But That's Okay)

There’s a line from The Princess Diaries that has always stayed with me:

"Courage is not the absence of fear but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear. The brave may not live forever, but the cautious do not live at all. From now on you will be traveling the road between who you think you are and who you can be! The key is to allow yourself to make the journey."

Since reclaiming my show and reflecting on the journey of service, I’ve been thinking about what courage truly means—not the kind that gets applause, but the kind that sometimes gets you misunderstood, doubted, or even ridiculed.

I’ve known since I was a child that I came here to assist. I walked this path for years with little support, but I had the courage to follow my soul—to do what was right, love where I could, and stand up for those being harmed. I am soft and strong, and I still AM.

The Simple, Profound Answer

And yes… even though I’ve known all along, there are days when I stop, shake my head, scream into my pillow, and shout up at the Universe: "Why did I sign up for this? Why am I here trying to help people who don’t seem to care?"

Then I look out my window. I see the beauty of life—the trees, the sun, and a smiling baby in their parents' arms, full of innocence and wonder. And I remember. This is why. This is why I keep showing up.

My cat jumps up with dirty paws and purrs against me. I shake my head…then I remember…And I realize again… this is why too.

Years ago, my spiritual teachers told me two things that defined my journey:

• "If you see something in your life and you say, ‘Someone should do something about that,’ that someone is you."
• "Where you are going, you’re going to have to believe in yourself no matter what anyone says."

My job is to co-create a solution-based world, and I wish to do this with others who are ready, willing, and wanting to follow the road of peace, love, and solutions for all concerned.

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💡 Reflection for you:

Where do you look out into the world and say this exact thing: “Someone should do something about that…”?

Where in your life are you showing up courageously, even when no one sees or applauds?

With love, courage, and a little cosmic humor, Rose and Friends (Furry and Unseen)

P.S. Maybe you didn’t need a near-death experience either… maybe you’ve always known, in your own way, why you’re here. 🌟

#Courage #PurposeDriven #SpiritualJourney #TheWhy #SolutionBased #FollowYourTruth

Compassion vs. Enabling: The Day I Drew a Line in the Alley (Part 2)

 

Compassion vs. Enabling: The Day I Drew a Line in the Alley

Sometimes all it takes is a good scream… and a few heroic hands to show up at just the right moment.

I shared recently how I met a woman whose wheelchair was broken in an alley, where she had been stranded for two whole weeks.

The community had failed her, offering endless phone calls and empty promises ("nice" words), but no actual solutions.

When I stepped in and began the process of getting her a manual chair, removing the broken motorized one, and getting her a new phone, I felt an intense responsibility.

I’ll be honest: After hearing her painful stories, I felt overwhelmed. I wondered how I could immerse myself in this deep pain and still feel okay—how I could help her without fully absorbing her burden.

To be honest: I felt scared. What truly terrified me was the realization that she was younger than I am. I was concerned that the sheer volume of her despair would drain my energy and leave me unable to help either of us.

The Courage to Set a Boundary

This is where I learned the critical difference between Compassion and Enabling.

The next day, I showed up with absolute clarity and said something simple but powerful:

“I hear you. I’m not here to invalidate the painful things you’ve experienced. But if you want to move forward, I need a favor from you: start noticing these experiences and take responsibility for how you engage with them.”

It was a clear boundary designed to empower her. Doing this would make it easier to attract people and situations who genuinely care and can offer true assistance.

The Role of Laughter (And a Tiny Threat)

The tension in the air was thick, so I knew I needed to shift the energy to make the lesson stick.

At one point, I even teased her: “I got you that sexy wheelchair — but if you keep talking too much about the past, I’m going to have to spank that tiny butt of yours.”

She laughed so hard she nearly tipped forward!

(Full disclosure: I’m a little reluctant to make spanking threats a habit — some people actually like spankings, and I don’t want them lining up at my door. 😉)

That laugh did the trick. It helped both of us re-center and move the conversation toward what would actually help her next: action.

My Takeaways on Real Help

This moment taught me so much about showing up with courage:

• Compassion doesn’t mean absorbing everything. It means offering your full presence, but not your entire energetic bank account.

• Discernment in Action: Setting clear intentions and boundaries opens the door for true help.

• Empowerment Over Change: We can’t change someone else — but we can empower them to step into aligned action and find their own agency.

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💡 Reflection for you:

The people who left the woman stranded probably thought they were being "nice"—promising without ever following through. When have you needed to choose a courageous truth (a firm "no" or a clear boundary) over a "nice," hollow "yes?"

Share your experience in the comments below!

Lots of LOVE,

Rose and Friends (Furry and Unseen) 🌹🐾😇

When Screaming Brings In Solutions!

 When a Broken Wheelchair Taught Me the Difference Between "Nice" and Real Help. (3-5 Second Read)

Sometimes all it takes is a good scream… and a few heroic hands to show up at just the right moment.

I met a woman whose wheelchair had broken down in an alley. She had been stranded there for two whole weeks.

Neighbors had called the police and ambulance repeatedly, but no one could actually help her. Too many rules. Too many boundaries. Too many people "not wanting to get involved."

Even the ambulance attendants said they see it every day: people call for help, then move on—never even asking if the person is okay.

They just call, check the box, and leave.

And this is the heartbreaking truth that was revealed to me in that alley: If the average person won't take two seconds to ask a dying person if they are okay, will they ever take the time to use the discernment God gave them to truly think about this problem, or about their own actions?

This lack of basic courage and thought is the biggest problem. It's why rules and boundaries become excuses, and it's why she stayed stranded.

So, she stayed stranded… until I heard her screaming and crying — and stepped in.

In just two days, I was able to find and get her a non-motorized chair for immediate mobility. I then contacted a specialist for the broken, highly valuable motorized one. Unfortunately, whoever she had previously trusted tried to fix it and made an expensive mess. The specialist rightly took the damaged chair away, freeing her from that heavy burden and liability.

And the next day, I got her a new phone.

Every single one of these steps—the temporary chair, the removal of the broken one, the new phone—gave her the literal and emotional freedom to leave. Everyone else in the community wanted her to leave, but did nothing to actually make it possible.

This was key: I was able to find the real solution, not because I had more resources, but because I brought discernment, intention, and follow-through where others only offered "nice" words.

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The Hard Lesson: Compassion Doesn't Mean Enabling. (The Core Message)

As I got closer, I noticed something else: Not everything she shared added up. Some stories didn't ring true.

That's when I realized the deeper truth: The people who left her there probably thought they were being “nice”—promising, saying yes, yes, yes... without ever following through.

They avoided the uncomfortable truth—or said "yes" to look good or because they were afraid of confrontation. But when we do this, we actually create more pain than a clear, honest "no." A hollow "yes" stretches the pain far longer than necessary.

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💡 The Lesson I Carry Forward: Discernment and intention matter more than empty yeses. When our words and actions align, trust grows.

And that's the kind of space I'm called to create: a group of us ready to show up with courage, with real follow-through, and with the intention of creating positive change together.

If this resonates with you… you belong in this conversation. 🌹

Lots of LOVE, Rose and Friends (Furry and Unseen) 🌹🐾😇

"A Message From Beyond: Where My Grief Lies"

 

"A Message From Beyond: Where My Grief Lies"

A Message From Beyond: Where My Grief Lies

Six months after my brother passed, his spirit came to visit me with crucial information. I imagine he'd just experienced his life review and then navigated a period of readjustment, gaining new perspectives.

When he arrived with his message, he was incredibly supportive of my work. "I saw what you wanted for me," he said. "I have to be honest, I don't think I wanted those same things for you."

"I never expected you to!" I replied. "How could you want for me what you had no idea I was gradually guiding you towards?" This realization has become the most painful part of my grief journey, and it often highlights a profound disconnect I experience with many of my clients, and even friends. Most of the time, I can see far more than I can articulate. I'm limited to focusing on what they can process and accept in their current reality. The truth is, I know so much more, but to offer it prematurely could scare them or derail their path. I even see why they are acting out and projecting, a weight of understanding that's often difficult to carry. This extends even to those with good intentions, who, by misunderstanding my process and the depth of my gifts, inadvertently deny me the space to feel my feelings and advocate for my own pain.

This is often the hardest part of my work. People seek my help with a specific, current issue, assuming that's the full extent of my capabilities. They even expect me to use my psychic skills to prove myself, a demand far beyond what they would ask of a traditional therapist. Again, I often stand by, silent, hoping they'll follow the subtle nudges I offer – nudges I sometimes feel they ignore. Just as my brother ignored my suggestions. He could only see what was directly in front of him, having no clue where I truly wanted to take him. Not until it was too late.

This journey is not for the faint of heart. We may be sensitive, but we must also be incredibly strong.

The Unseen Depths: Navigating Intuition, Empathy, and Unwavering Resolve

 

The Unseen Depths:

 Navigating Intuition, Empathy, and Unwavering Resolve

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Introduction: Beyond the Surface of Perception

Have you ever felt a whisper of something more, an unseen current beneath the everyday? For some of us, that whisper is a roar, a constant stream of heightened perceptions that shape our reality. My journey has been one of diving deep into these intuitive gifts, understanding their profound beauty, and navigating the often misplaced fear and misunderstanding that comes from the human world, not from the spiritual realms they connect me to. If you, too, are grappling with unique sensitivities, or seeking to understand the power of authentic intuitive guidance, this is my story – and perhaps, a reflection of yours.

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Section 1: The Evolving Landscape of Intuition: From Nascent Awareness to Embodied Mastery

My path with these heightened senses began as a direct, almost childlike obedience to divine instruction. It was a clear "go here" or "do this," a pure, unadulterated relationship where guidance felt like undeniable commands. This initial stage of intuitive development is a beautiful one, a foundation built on trust and a burgeoning awareness of the unseen.

But the journey of self-discovery and profound personal work isn't static; it evolves. As I grew, my connection deepened, allowing for more nuanced insights and the space for my own decisions, becoming a partnership rather than a command. I've traversed these various stages, from initial awe to profound integration, and this allows me to truly relate to where you might be on your own intuitive path. Whether you're just recognizing these whispers, like those who recently begin to hear angels, or wrestling with the deeper complexities of integration, I understand your experience.

This refined sensitivity, this deeper knowing, fosters profound feeling, awareness, acceptance, compassion, and understanding. It's the source of immense strength and clarity within me. However, this innate sensitivity is often misunderstood by others as a weakness, leading to a significant burden – not from the gifts themselves, but from the fear-based reactions of those around me. There's a critical difference between merely hearing about positive concepts and truly embodying and living them through deep personal work. My challenges haven't come from my connection to the unseen, but from the human world's inability to meet that connection with understanding.

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Section 2: When Intuition Commands: The Tenacity of Unheeded Truth

There's an unmistakable clarity when a truly significant intuitive message arrives, especially concerning a loved one. It's more than a hunch; it's an urgent, precise knowing, often anchored in a deep understanding of universal laws and principles. It's a message that demands attention, a check on someone I'm clearly being sent to protect.

Here lies a profound, often unseen burden: carrying vital information that others simply can't perceive or refuse to believe. This is where I might appear as a "walking contradiction." My deep empathy for others fuels an unwavering resolve and tenacity to ensure these critical messages are heeded. I've encountered countless instances where my insights are met with skepticism or demands for trivial "proof" – like "how many fingers am I holding behind my back?" These requests are not only useless parlor tricks that miss the profound significance of the message, but they are also deeply dismissive of genuine concern.

This persistence isn't about control; it's born from the understanding that the message keeps coming because it hasn't been truly "heeded". And critically, my negative experiences have never come from the entities or the spiritual insights themselves. Instead, the real challenges and even harm I've faced have consistently stemmed from human fear, misunderstanding, and the actions of those unwilling to acknowledge what they don't comprehend. This distinction is paramount: the gifts are pure, the burden is often human. I've learned that merely having a nascent awareness of the spiritual realm, or conceptually grasping positive ideas, doesn't equate to the deep personal work required to truly embody and integrate these truths.

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Section 3: The Depths of My Work: Guiding Your Intuitive Path

My integrated journey – understanding the stages of intuitive development and navigating the human reactions to it – is precisely what allows me to serve you. If you're feeling confused, overwhelmed by your own sensitivities, struggling to trust your inner knowing, or dealing with the impact of others' fear, my experience offers unparalleled clarity, validation, and actionable strategies.

I don't just "see" things; I've lived the complexities of integrating these perceptions into everyday life, and I've learned to distinguish between divine guidance and human-generated fear. I guide clients not just to hear their intuition, but to truly heed it, helping them move from confusion to empowered action and meaningful change. This is the depth of my work: to help you understand your unique gifts, overcome external resistance, and embrace the power that lies within your own unseen depths. I seek to work with those ready to truly do the work of embodiment, rather than merely learn concepts.

I Don't Like BMWs: The Burden of Unsolicited Advice

 

I Don't Like BMWs: The Burden of Unsolicited Advice

After my brother passed, I researched parts for his BMW, determined to find the most affordable repairs. I consulted a friend who knows cars and asked if my understanding of the costs was accurate. Instead of answering my question directly, he simply replied, “I don’t like BMWs.”

I stopped him. “I didn’t ask whether you like BMWs. I asked if I’ve figured out the time and cost of the repairs correctly!”

I had another, even more frustrating experience recently. I met a man at the gym and, wanting to return his generosity, offered him a gift: my healing work. I suggested he watch my show first. “I think it’s a good idea for you to watch it,” I explained. “That way, you’ll understand the depth of my work and won’t come in blindly, get startled, or become concerned when I do some healing with you.”

A couple of weeks later, I called him. “Did you get a chance to watch the show and understand how I approach my work?”

His immediate response? “You’re doing your show all wrong!”

I was stunned. “That’s not what I asked. I’m asking if you took time to understand me and my work. I didn’t call for unsolicited input. I’m trying to follow through on a promise I made to you!”

He wouldn’t stop. Honestly, I had to hang up. I was already carrying the weight of challenges caused by people I’d hired for the show, and his ill-timed critique was the last thing I needed.

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Beyond the Unsolicited Advice

This isn’t to say I’m unwilling to grow, shift, or change. This work is all about growth. But it’s also about deep personal alignment—about not becoming a puppet on a string or a show dog jumping through hoops to impress or conform to what others think I should be. My work is built on trust, depth, presence, and seeing beyond ordinary checkboxes.

It just gets exhausting to ask a direct question and consistently receive a completely different answer.

So, whether it's about car repairs or spiritual work, the lesson is the same: trust your intuition, stay true to your path, and focus your energy on what truly matters.

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Have You Ever Felt Unheard?

Have you ever asked a question and felt like they never really heard it in the first place? Or had someone answer what they wanted to hear instead of what you actually asked? Or respond based on what they assumed instead of what you meant?

I’d love to hear if that’s ever happened to you.